This is one of the foundational books of the Arbinger Institue leadership development training. It has a lot of good ideas, and I felt challenged, as I read it, to identify whom I was looking at as objects rather than people. The way the ideas were presented were as engaging as any book of this type. I think I liked it more than Crucial Conversations. I felt like that book's approach to conflict resolution was a bit formulaic. In the end, people really can tell if you are sincere or just going through the motions. There was a lot of hype and promotion of the Arbinger Institute in the book, especially at the end, but it wasn't more than I expected. I read it because all the managers at the city where I work will be going to a Arbinger Institute training in November. I am looking forward to the training. (2018, 302 p)
Saturday, August 28, 2021
Leadership and Self Deception by the Arbinger Intitute
Friday, August 27, 2021
Magic in the Moonlight by Jules Barke
This is part of a new series written by my neighbor's writing group. Each novel is set on the same magical island, but each follows a different couple on their bumpy road to love. I believe they are independently published, so I didn't know what to expect, but it turned out to be really cute. It is a clean romance, with likeable and relateable characters. There are funny mix-ups and bumbling. This is a good choice for either teen or adult women who want to read a light, fast, clean contemporary romance. (2021, 216 p)
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
Killing the Mob by Bill O'Reilly and Martin Dungard
Thursday, August 19, 2021
Sal and Gabi Fix the Universe by Carlos Hernandez
I chose this one after finishing Cold Mourning because I was ready for something much lighter. This book fit the bill. It has much the same tone as the first in the series, but if anything, it is even funnier. I love Hernandez's languange, filled as it is with spanglish and creative metaphore. He also has a nack for creating really silly and hilarious situations. I was chuckling outloud as I listened. The only reservation I have about it is that it was a little long, and could maybe have used some more editing. The author ended the book with hints of another in the series, and I will probably read it when I come across it. (2021, 432)
Monday, August 16, 2021
Cold Mourning by Brenda Chapman
I read this book because it was available and I was waiting for other holds. It had good reviews and Chapman won awards with it as a new author. In the end, however, it turned out to be super gritty. There are descriptions of no less than three brutal rape situations. I don't know why I kept reading. I guess I hoped that if it had good reviews, the ending would be amazing and worth slogging through the smut. The plotting was good and the characterizations complex and authentic. But in the end it wasn't worth reading. I can't really recommend it to anyone unless you are super immuned to that kind of content. (2014, 392 p.)
Saturday, August 14, 2021
Artemis Fowl by Eoin Colfer
I was surprised to find that I don't have a blog post for this one. We read this whole series to our kids when they were growing up. It is full of wit, action, an fun. I am reading it again because it is our Parent/Child book club title for September. My kids loved Artemis Fowl, I think, because they were also super smart, and they enjoyed the fact that Artemis stayed one step ahead of his opponents. Now that I have to present it to my parent/child book club, I realize it is not super full of deep meaning. Mr Colfer does a good job of making all of the characters dimensional. You can kind of see, in this first book, that Artemis is really just a little boy who is hurting, but he isn't super moral yet. During the rest of the series, and because of his interactions with the fairies, particularly Holly, Artemis learns to be a good guy instead of a super villain. But I can see why some of my friends were not as thrilled with this series as I was when I first read it. It will be interesting to see what my parent/child book club families think. (2001, 304 p)
PS: The reason I chose this book is because Disney did a series based on it in 2020. However, I was just reading the reviews, and they weren't very good.
Saturday, August 7, 2021
White Bird by R. J. Palacio
This is a graphic novel that is really well written, beautifully illustrated, and quite moving. Palacio adds a touch of the fantastic, which adds a literary element to the story that, though a little odd, ends up working. I listened to the book on recording, and then just looked at the print version afterword. The readers of the story (it is full cast) do a good job suggesting the illustrations of the graphic novel. The illustrations are done in full color and are quite stunning. The only thing I didn't really care for was that Palacio (or her editors) felt that this story had to be tied into the Wonder group of stories. It totally would have worked all by itself, and trying to connect it with Auggie's friend, Julian, felt like a stretch. I also didn't really like all the preachy moralizing tacked on at the end of the recording. The story gets across the message of the importance of being kind and courageous, without the extra note. Why not let the young readers make the connections to what is happing in the world today instead of spelling it out. Still, the book is well done. It is not quite as toned down as "Number the Stars," but it is still an appropriate introduction to the Holocaust for a 4-6 grade audience, especially with adult guidance. (2019, 224 p)
(I don't know how I ended up reading three "man's cruelty to man" books in a row. That wasn't on purpose. I am totally really for some romantic fluff, people.)
Thursday, August 5, 2021
Princess Ever After by Rachel Hauck
This is the second in the "Royal Wedding Series." It is just as silly and improbable as the first, but after reading the books about the cold war, and WWII, I was in the mood for something light and I enjoyed reading it quite a bit. The next time I am in a low mood, I will probably listen to the next in the series as well. I am not ashamed to admit it. Sometimes I just want to read trite escapist Christian romances (so shoot me.) (368 p. 2014)
The Bomber Mafia by Malcolm Gladwell
The "book" was produced in its audio format before it became a print volume. The recording contains clips from interviews and newsreels related to the significant events in the book. It is really well done, and listening to it is more like watching a documentary than like reading a book. Gladwell does a good job of presenting complex moral issues, with out varnishing over hard questions. I learned a lot I didn't know about WWII. I am embarrassed to say I didn't understand how much Napalm was used against Japan the last year of the war. The topic of WWII bombers is of special interset to me since my uncle was a bomber and lost his life in WWII. This is a great choice for any WWII buff, man or woman, who is willing to have their moral fiber stretched a little. (2021)
Tuesday, August 3, 2021
Who Was Harvey Milk by Corinne A Grinapol
Sometimes when I know one of my holds will come available soon, I read one of the short biographies in the "Who Was" series while I am waiting. I chose this one because I didn't recognized the name in the title. It was interesting, and it reminded me of how gays people were looked on when I was a child. Society really has come a long way in accepting a variety of sexual orientations. This book contains some side bars that explain, on a child's level, about the LGBTQ commmunity and history. It might be good for parents to be on hand to explain things if a young reader hasen't been exposed to the topic before. (112 p. 2020)